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Disadvantages
of Hard Persuasion:
It damages the relationship. When you
use hard persuasion, you're forcing another person to bend to your
will. It will backfire with a man who hates being threatened. The core
of hard persuasion is if the person doesn't do what you do, he will
face a serious consequence. There are some men who just hate any type
of threatening and will go to mountains to PROVE YOU WRONG by
deliberately doing the opposite of what you want. If you man is this
type, stick solely to soft persuasion.
Soft
Persuasion
As
the
name suggests, soft persuasion is a gentle, slow form of persuasion. If
the tempo of the hard persuasion is push-push-push, the tempo of the
soft persuasion is one gentle push, followed by a step back and a while
later, another gentle push.
Advantages of Soft
Persuasion:
While the hard persuasion may damage
your relationship, the soft persuasion's biggest advantage is that it
will leave your relationship intact. In fact, soft persuasion is the
main tool you want to use to persuade a man in the long-run. It will
lay the foundation for the rare occasions when you have to use hard
persuasion to achieve your goal. If you use hard
persuasion all the time, it will lose its effects as time goes on.
Disadvantages of Soft
Persuasion:
It's VERY SLOW. The cornerstone of
soft persuasion is to be patient and convince the other person that
your point of view is correct and that they should be on your side. It
won't work for some guys who only react to intimidation. They're the
type who won't listen or change until you raise your voice ...
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