Ever wanted to know what a man REALLY means with the things he says to you? With the love lessons in my book, you can! Know the REAL meaning behind his words by learning his secrets below:
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Some time back, a reader wrote me to ask about the man she was currently dating. She told me she loved him very much… but she had a few doubts about him, because he proposed to her after just a few weeks of dating. Naturally, I wrote back telling her to be careful, because it’s always suspicious when a guy rushes into marriage. I urged her not to rush into marriage, hold back a little, and give her relationship some time to grow more naturally. She then wrote back an angry reply, accusing me of disrespecting her man. (I can’t save everyone, I guess!)
So for the next few months, I assumed she ignored my advice and went ahead with the wedding. Life went on until one day, I received an e-mail from her. This time, she was apologizing. She told me I was right: The guy wasn’t interested in marriage at all. He only pretended to be so that he could get into her pants – which, unfortunately, he was able to do. He broke up with her as soon as he got bored and hooked up with another woman.
Has something like that ever happened to you? Have you ever dated a guy who was sweet and affectionate one week, and cold and distant the next? It can be pretty confusing, especially if you can’t “read” the male mind. (More on this later.) For now, let me say that it’s EXTREMELY important to know the warning signs of a “bad guy” in love and dating. Here are some of the more telling signs out there:
#1: Does he always, always pay in cash? Be careful: Married/attached men have been known to avoid using credit cards to conceal their extramarital affairs from their partners.
#2: Does he only call when he’s “out of the house” – say, walking his dog or at the supermarket? It could mean he’s avoiding calling you where his partner can ask who’s on the phone.
#3: Does he NOT want you to visit his place? If he has nothing to hide, he should have no problems inviting you to his place.
#4: Did you meet at the bar? Any dating coach will tell you that bars are shady places to meet men – lots of married/attached men go there to get lucky.
What should you do if you see these signs in him? It’s best to ask him about his REAL relationship status as soon as you can, before you fall too madly in love with him to let go. And if he’s still being secretive and mysterious, I urge you to feel free to leave him outright. After all, good relationships are built on open, honest communication, and you clearly don’t have that in this one!
#1: Have you been dating for more than several months, but you’re still just that: “dating”? Does it seem that he has no plans of making things official with you? If so, he might be completely happy with your little setup. Good for him, but bad for you!
#2: He has an excuse for everything. “It’s not the right time.” “I’m not ready.” “I’m still busy doing (insert life goal here).” “I can’t move out of the house just yet.” If he’s not a man of action, and is instead a man of excuses, trust me: It’ll be hard to make him take responsibility over ANYTHING.
#3: Does he have a “me first” attitude? People, both men and women, need to have a “sharing, caring” mindset when they want a serious relationship to work out. If he doesn’t have it, trust me when I say he’s not ready to get serious… yet.
The good news? If you love each other… but he’s simply not ready to commit just yet… you can help him GET ready. How? Through your natural ability to motivate, inspire, and encourage him. Click here to read my complete eBook collection about dating an emotionally unavailable man!
If at any time you have doubts about the man you’re currently seeing, follow the advice I gave my reader: Don’t be too quick to commit! Instead, let your relationship grow in a slower, steadier, more natural way. Also, it’ll be a good idea to read up on male psychology. After all, a man’s actions will speak much louder than his words. It doesn’t matter what he says: If his actions don’t match his words, he’s up to something! That’s why I encourage you to read my book on male psychology, Unmask the Male Mind. It’s your ticket to understanding men, and finding the honest, loyal ones among the crowd!
In it, you’ll learn crazy, insightful things about the male mind:
– The 7 “male jobs” you should never do
– How to turn his LUST into LOVE
– How to make a man feel emotionally attached to you
– About a man’s “commitment level” and how to influence it
– How to “read” a man’s mind and know what he really means
And much more! Read the first few chapters for FREE by clicking the blue button in the website below:
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Have a great week ahead,
Relationship & Love Coach
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