Has this ever happened to you?
You had a blossoming relationship with
an attentive, thoughtful, affectionate
guy… but just as things were getting
good between you, he suddenly
Or let’s say you confessed your feelings
for each other over a romantic dinner…
but afterwards, he started avoiding you!
Have YOU ever dated a guy who suddenly
disappeared when things were getting
good? It’s no fun!
You might have felt betrayed, fooled,
and maybe a little cheated. And for days
and weeks, you must have had just one
question on your mind:
“Why did he run away?”
WHY MEN SUDDENLY DISAPPEAR
There are two answers to that question:
#1 – Some guys out there are NOT ready
for a relationship, no matter what they
tell you… and it’s only a matter of
time before they run away.
Good riddance, I say!
But the second reason is more important:
#2 – Some guys ARE ready for a
relationship… but they might feel the
relationship is moving TOO FAST for
them. So they withdraw and spend some
alone time to cope with the pressure.
This is a natural reaction for healthy,
commitment-ready men. Whenever they’re
faced with something they don’t fully
understand, they get quiet, withdraw,
and spend some serious thinking time
Unfortunately, when a guy withdraws,
many women make the mistake of CHASING
him, confronting him, and asking why
he’s cold and distant… and WON’T LEAVE
HIM ALONE until they get a good answer
The problem: He doesn’t HAVE a good
answer! And the confrontation makes him
want to stay away even more.
They think, “Okay, I was wondering if
courting her was the right thing to
do… I guess it’s not.”
Now, this might have happened to you
If you’re not careful, it might happen
to you again!
Here are two of the most common ways
women encounter “disappearing men,” and
how to deal with them:
#1 – WHEN HE SUDDENLY GOES QUIET FOR A WEEK
When an attentive, thoughtful,
affectionate man suddenly goes quiet for
a week, it’s usually a sign that the
relationship made a jump forward that he
wasn’t ready for.
A man, by nature, prefers to move the
relationship forward himself. That’s why
when a woman suddenly moves the
relationship forward – such as by
confessing her feelings or pressuring
him to commit – he’s caught off-guard,
and needs time to process the big
Put simply, he has to feel that moving
the relationship forward was HIS idea…
and it takes a smart, skilled, loving
woman to make a man feel that way!
#2 – WHEN HE GOES MISSING AFTER A
When a man disappears after a romantic
event – like a romantic dinner, or when
you have sex for the first time, or when
you confess your feelings to him – it’s
usually a sign he feels things are
moving too fast.
Why is that a big deal? Because while we
women fall in love HARD AND FAST, men
fall in love in STAGES.
And sometimes, when a man feels a woman
is RUSHING a relationship, they feel
like running away – as if they’re
jumping off a runaway train!
HOW TO MAKE A GUY STAY
You may have lost a few good men in your
past, and that’s fine. In fact, it
doesn’t really matter.
What REALLY matters is this: Will you
KEEP losing good men in the future?
Here’s the scary fact: If you keep
making mistakes in dating… if you
don’t learn how men think… and if you
don’t adjust to a man’s pace in love…
then you WILL keep losing good men!
Now, some of you might object: “But
Alex, it’s not MY fault! I’m just being
me! It’s HIM who should adjust, not me!”
Look at it this way: If you’re “just
being you,” and men keep running away
from you, then there’s obviously a
After all, there are lots of women out
there – many of them my own readers –
who are also “just being themselves,”
but are STILL attracting great guys
everywhere they go!
What’s the difference? They simply know
things the rest of us don’t.
They know how men think. They know what
men want. They know how to adjust to a
man’s quirks AND keep the relationship
moving forward at the same time.
All by just being themselves!
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nurture a blossoming relationship at the
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(6) If you let the “right one” get away,
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