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Why Men Suddenly Disappear

Dear Ladies,

Has this ever happened to you?

You had a blossoming relationship with
an attentive, thoughtful, affectionate
guy… but just as things were getting
good between you, he suddenly
disappeared!

Or let’s say you confessed your feelings
for each other over a romantic dinner…
but afterwards, he started avoiding you!

Have YOU ever dated a guy who suddenly
disappeared when things were getting
good? It’s no fun!

You might have felt betrayed, fooled,
and maybe a little cheated. And for days
and weeks, you must have had just one
question on your mind:

“Why did he run away?”

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WHY MEN SUDDENLY DISAPPEAR
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There are two answers to that question:

#1 – Some guys out there are NOT ready
for a relationship, no matter what they
tell you… and it’s only a matter of
time before they run away.

Good riddance, I say!

But the second reason is more important:

#2 – Some guys ARE ready for a
relationship… but they might feel the
relationship is moving TOO FAST for
them. So they withdraw and spend some
alone time to cope with the pressure.

This is a natural reaction for healthy,
commitment-ready men. Whenever they’re
faced with something they don’t fully
understand, they get quiet, withdraw,
and spend some serious thinking time
alone.

Unfortunately, when a guy withdraws,
many women make the mistake of CHASING
him, confronting him, and asking why
he’s cold and distant… and WON’T LEAVE
HIM ALONE until they get a good answer
from him.

The problem: He doesn’t HAVE a good
answer! And the confrontation makes him
want to stay away even more.

They think, “Okay, I was wondering if
courting her was the right thing to
do… I guess it’s not.”

Oops!

Now, this might have happened to you
before.

If you’re not careful, it might happen
to you again!

Here are two of the most common ways
women encounter “disappearing men,” and
how to deal with them:

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#1 – WHEN HE SUDDENLY GOES QUIET FOR A WEEK
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When an attentive, thoughtful,
affectionate man suddenly goes quiet for
a week, it’s usually a sign that the
relationship made a jump forward that he
wasn’t ready for.

A man, by nature, prefers to move the
relationship forward himself. That’s why
when a woman suddenly moves the
relationship forward – such as by
confessing her feelings or pressuring
him to commit – he’s caught off-guard,
and needs time to process the big
change!

Put simply, he has to feel that moving
the relationship forward was HIS idea…
and it takes a smart, skilled, loving
woman to make a man feel that way!

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#2 – WHEN HE GOES MISSING AFTER A
ROMANTIC EVENT
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When a man disappears after a romantic
event – like a romantic dinner, or when
you have sex for the first time, or when
you confess your feelings to him – it’s
usually a sign he feels things are
moving too fast.

Why is that a big deal? Because while we
women fall in love HARD AND FAST, men
fall in love in STAGES.

And sometimes, when a man feels a woman
is RUSHING a relationship, they feel
like running away – as if they’re
jumping off a runaway train!

If this has ever happened to you, I
recommend you read Chapter 14 of this
eBook collection. Learn how to bounce
back, get up, and get over a wasted
opportunity… and be ready for the next
one!

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HOW TO MAKE A GUY STAY
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You may have lost a few good men in your
past, and that’s fine. In fact, it
doesn’t really matter.

What REALLY matters is this: Will you
KEEP losing good men in the future?

Here’s the scary fact: If you keep
making mistakes in dating… if you
don’t learn how men think… and if you
don’t adjust to a man’s pace in love…
then you WILL keep losing good men!

Now, some of you might object: “But
Alex, it’s not MY fault! I’m just being
me! It’s HIM who should adjust, not me!”

Look at it this way: If you’re “just
being you,” and men keep running away
from you, then there’s obviously a
problem. Right?

After all, there are lots of women out
there – many of them my own readers –
who are also “just being themselves,”
but are STILL attracting great guys
everywhere they go!

What’s the difference? They simply know
things the rest of us don’t.

They know how men think. They know what
men want. They know how to adjust to a
man’s quirks AND keep the relationship
moving forward at the same time.

All by just being themselves!

Want to learn how to “be yourself” AND
nurture a blossoming relationship at the
same time?

Then I recommend you read my eBook
collection, 77 Ways To Lose A Guy. It
has true stories, life lessons, dating
tips, and everything you need to know
about men and what they REALLY want!

Here are some of the great things you’ll
learn in this eBook collection:

(1) How to let go of a painful past
completely, so you can move forward
again

(2) How to get rid of your fear of
rejection

(3) How to spot emotionally-unavailable
men from the very first date

(4) Is he NOT ready for marriage?
Chapter 8 has everything you need to
know and do

(5) Are you dating a married man? Here’s
how to make it work without stepping on
anyone’s toes… (Chapter 11)

(6) If you let the “right one” get away,
how should you deal with the pain? It’s
all in Chapter 14.

(7) 5 Ways to Cheat-proof your marriage

And there’s much, much more! Click below
to start learning:

How to make him stay

Until our next Newsletter, remember: It
takes two people to make a relationship
work. So don’t stop learning, and don’t
stop loving!

My 77 Ways To Lose A Guy eBook
collection also comes with two other
FREE eBooks:

Bonus eBook #1
Inner Demons That Ruin Your Chances At Love

Bonus eBook #2
How To Get Out Of A Bad Relationship

As always, my eBooks come with a 30-day
money-back guarantee. Give 77 Ways To
Lose A Guy a one-month trial today!

To the happiness you deserve,

~Alexandra Fox

If You Can’t Move On From The Breakup, Read This

Dear Ladies,

Let me tell you the story of three
painful breakups…

Our first story is about “Sarah,” who
after 2 years of dating a guy, realized
he was CHEATING on her.

She promptly broke up with the jerk, but
she found herself wanting to get back
with him… even after what he’d done.

Sarah was “stuck” – and even after she
completely broke up with her ex, she
kept falling for players, cheaters, and
non-committing jerks.

Has that ever happened to you?

Our second story is a little different.
It’s about “Melinda,” who once actually
CHEATED on her boyfriend!

At first, Melinda defended herself. She
said, “Why would I stay with a guy who’s
not MAN ENOUGH for me?”

Unfortunately, her reputation had gotten
so bad that no man wanted to date her…
except for one-night stands. What’s
worse, even her friends began to
distance themselves from her.

And finally, our third story is about
“June” – a smart, attractive,
kindhearted girl who was seeing a
bright, hardworking guy.

June had a good relationship for the
first few months. Then, for no apparent
reason, her bond with the guy started
turning sour.

They disagreed and argued with each
other more and more often as the months
went by… until one sad day, they
decided to call it quits.

Has any of your past relationships ended
in a sad way like that… but you had no
idea why?

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WHY BREAKUPS HAPPEN
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Sarah, Melinda, and June illustrate
three of the most common reasons why
breakups happen today…

For women like Sarah, breakups happen
because a lot of guys out there simply
are NOT ready, NOT willing, or NOT able
to take care of a woman properly.

We’re talking about players,
chauvinists, bums, crooks, psychos… or
men who are simply emotionally
unavailable.

For women like Melinda, breakups happen
because of unrealistic expectations…
and misguided ideals.

Some women think their man should be
perfect. And if he’s not, she has every
right in the world to leave him and find
another guy.

Think about it… would you really want
a guy to treat you the same way?

And finally, “June” represents most
women: We don’t have the slightest idea
WHY the breakup happened!

And as a result, we spend weeks, months,
even YEARS wondering what went wrong.

Now, think of your last relationship.
Which of the three women represents your
situation the most?

No matter what caused your breakup, I’m
pretty sure WHAT YOU NEED right now is
the same as what Sarah, Melinda, and
June need:

How do you get over the breakup?

How do you move on with your life?

How can you be happy and contented
again?

As always, it’s Alexandra Fox to the
rescue! Here are 3 time-tested ways to
TRULY get over a breakup and move on
with your life…

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#1 – HANG OUT WITH BETTER CROWDS!
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“Sarah,” the woman who got cheated on,
used to be a party girl. She liked the
thrill of dating different men.

But after she got “played” by her
ex-boyfriend, she realized that EVERY
SINGLE ONE of the men she dated were
players… or had “player habits.” (Do
the men in YOUR dating circle have
“player habits?”)

Determined, Sarah stopped hanging out
with toxic crowds, and started finding
better groups of people to spend her
valuable time with.

She volunteered. She started a tiny
home-based business. She started going
to the gym. And so on.

Today, she’s still single, but she
admits to me that the men she’s dating
right now DON’T have player habits – and
the prospect of a happy relationship in
the near future is pretty good!

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#2 – CHANGE YOUR MINDSET!
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Want to know what happened to “Melinda,”
the woman who cheated on her guy?

After men stopped dating her, and her
friends turned their back to her, and
her family stopped supporting her
decisions, a lonely and desperate
Melinda turned to the one group that
would love and accept even “bad people”
like her: Church.

Melinda tells me:

“At church, I learned to be less about
me, and more about ME AND OTHERS. Why be
happy at others’ expense when we can ALL
be happy together, right?”

Absolutely right, girl!

Today, Melinda is happier, preppier, and
much wiser…. all because she stopped
depending on others for her happiness,
and started WORKING for others’
happiness… and her own!

And finally:

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#3 – KEEP GETTING BETTER AT LOVE!
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A few months after her breakup, “June”
subscribed to my Newsletters, and later
bought a copy of my eBook, The Breakup
Cure.

That’s when she realized her breakup
didn’t happen because of one BIG
mistake… but a handful of tiny
mistakes, done repeatedly over a long
period of time!

So today, June is fixing her bad habits,
one mistake at a time. She’s happy again
– she forgot about the past, and is 100%
focused on “making the rest of her life
the BEST of her life!”

So, do you want to get over your painful
past?

Then keep this in mind: You can’t keep
dating the same way over and over, and
expect things to be different!

You got to hang out with better crowds,
change your mindset, and keep getting
better in love.

And you’re doing all three by being a
part of the Unforgettable Woman
community!

The fastest, easiest way to “revamp”
your lonely love life and start a newer,
better, happier one… is by having a
dating coach at your side.

Unfortunately, that can be expensive.
Most dating coaches charge around $70 an
hour AT LEAST… and sessions can last
for weeks or months. Ouch!

I’m pretty sure, if you’re like most
people, you’d be willing to spend $70 to
fix your love life FOR GOOD. Not $70 an
hour!

Well, here’s some good news – I wrote
The Breakup Cure as a collection of my
years and years of dating advice to
women who just went through painful
breakups.

That’s 20 whole chapters of my
professional advice. It’s like having
your own personal dating coach at your
side, with my advice available to you
24/7!

What’s more, The Breakup Cure also comes
with three FREE bonus eBooks to complete
the breakup recovery program…

Bonus eBook #1 – The Rebound

Bonus eBook #2 – The Reconciliation

Bonus eBook #3 – The Makeover

Want to get started on the road to
recovery? Then click on the link below:

Learn to be happy again!

If you haven’t gone through the
breakup yet – but would like to KEEP a
breakup from happening – then I
recommend this eBook collection instead.
All my eBook collections come with a
30-day money-back guarantee, so go ahead
and give it a shot!

To the happiness you deserve,

~Alexandra Fox

5 Things That Keep You Hooked On The Wrong Guy

Dear Ladies,

“Sammi” was a reader of mine who went
through the typical bad relationship.

She met a great new guy, and they got
into a relationship that started out
fantastic. For a while, things were
going great, and Sammi even started
looking forward to marrying the guy.

But eventually, the misunderstandings
and arguments came, and they broke up
after two years of dating.

Sammi was devastated, but she moved on
to date other men again. Unfortunately,
she brought a few bad reminders of her
past relationship with her – fear,
anger, and a general mistrust of men.

As a result, not one of her new
boyfriends stayed long with her, no
matter what she tried!

I read her e-mail, and I quickly
realized she developed two bad habits
from her past relationship:

(1) She was falling for guys with the
exact same personality as her ex. She
was unconsciously trying to “continue”
her failed relationship, but with
another guy!

(2) She secretly hoped her ex-boyfriend
would come back to her. So she kept in
touch with him, whined often to her
friends, and posted “emo” comments and
photos on her Facebook profile.

Sammi was stuck, and she needed help.
Fast.

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THE PROBLEM WITH “MOVING ON”
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Sammi’s situation is sad. But hey, bad
relationships happen. It’s part of the
dating game.

And when bad breakups happen to us, the
advice we usually get is: “Just move
on.”

If only it were that easy, huh?

Like Sammi, lots of women never
completely move on. They may move on
PHYSICALLY, by dating new men and
finding new boyfriends.

But deep inside, many of these women are
still suffering from the wounds of their
past. And these wounds keep them from
being truly happy.

Having painful wounds from the past is
like being chained to a heavy metal
ball. You get stuck with the hopes,
dreams, and memories of your failed
relationship.

And unless you break your ex-boyfriend’s
hold over your life, you’ll keep having
bad relationships in the future. That’s
just how it is.

It’s not enough to “move on” to new men
and new relationships. You have to
COMPLETELY move on – to a new life, new
opportunities, new possibilities, new
happiness, new love, and so on!

Naturally, it won’t be easy. To
completely move on from a painful past,
you’ll need a lot of help.

You need love, support, and guidance…
from mentors, from life coaches, from
really good friends, and so on. And
that’s exactly what I try to be and do
for you guys.

That’s why I wrote Get Over Mr. Wrong,
probably the most in-depth guide about
COMPLETELY moving on available on the
Internet.

It’s my goal to give my readers the
ability to completely move on from their
painful pasts, and keep moving forward
towards the love and happiness they
truly deserve!

And from what I’ve heard from Sammi, I’m
overjoyed to know it’s working really
well…

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HOW MY EBOOK CHANGED SAMMI’S LIFE
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At my suggestion, Sammi got her own copy
of Get Over Mr. Wrong. And within a few
days, she completely moved on from her
ex-boyfriend and turned her life around.

She shared with me the three sections of
the eBook that really opened her eyes:

(1) Chapter 2, which explained the pros
and cons of getting back with your ex
after you break up. Sammi looked back,
and realized that the cons far
outweighed the pros!

(2) Chapter 6, which made her realize
she suffered from “relationship anxiety”
– she quickly took steps to remove the
anxiety and stop it from poisoning her
life.

(3) Bonus eBook #2, which was my
step-by-step guide to being single and
fabulous. Sammi said she enjoyed THIS
part of the eBook collection best, and
I’m not surprised!

Last I heard from Sammi, she was already
in a relationship with a great new guy.
This time, she’s 100% free of the fear,
anger, and mistrust that kept her in a
downward spiral for so many years.

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OTHER GREAT LESSONS FROM
“GET OVER MR. WRONG”
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You might be suffering from your past,
too. The bad memories, the humiliation,
the wounds that won’t heal… they all
pull you away from the happiness you’ve
always wanted.

But I’m confident that Get Over Mr.
Wrong will turn your life around, just
as it did for Sammi and hundreds of your
fellow readers.

Want to know if he is/was REALLY “Mr.
Wrong?” The answers are in Chapters 2,
3, 8, and 14.

Finding it IMPOSSIBLE to completely get
over a bad ex? Read Chapters 1, 6, 15,
and Bonus eBook #1 to finally move on.

Are you going in and out of a
relationship with a bad boyfriend? Break
the vicious cycle by reading Chapter 8
and Bonus eBook #2.

All this and more are in the Get Over
Mr. Wrong eBook collection, which you
can get by clicking the link below:

Forget the past and find happiness!

And here’s the best thing about it – if
Get Over Mr. Wrong doesn’t work for you,
you can ask for a refund within 30 days,
no questions asked. That’s how confident
I am that it will help you. So give it a
shot – your new life might just be a few
minutes away. ūüėČ

If that’s not enough, I also
include 3 totally FREE bonus eBooks in
the Get Over Mr. Wrong eBook collection,
to complete your “moving on” experience:

Bonus eBook #1
Three Steps To Heal From A Broken Heart Faster

Bonus eBook #2
How To Be Fabulously Single

Bonus eBook #3
How To Grow From Your Experiences

Don’t miss this chance to do everything
right from now on – start reading by
clicking here!

To the happiness you deserve,

~Alexandra Fox

He is hot

Is He Hot and Cold?

 Is He Hot and Cold?

 

What do you do when he’s all over you one day, and then nowhere to be found the next? If you’re dealing with a hot-and-cold man, here’s the fastest way to snap him out of it: Make him run after you

There, how do you deal with a guy who doesn’t know what he wants out of life?

That’s one of the most confusing things a man can do to you: He acts like your boyfriend¬†and treats you like his girlfriend… but when you ask him why he hasn’t made things official yet, he says, “I don’t know what I want.”What does it really mean? What It Means? When His Words? Don’t Match His Actions?

Here’s the secret about men I’d like you to know: When his words and actions don’t match, he’s hiding something.

Remember that! So what’s he hiding?

It could be one of many things. Maybe he’s dealing with hidden past issues. Maybe he doesn’t really want you “that way.” Or maybe he’s scared of giving up his freedom. And so on. In THIS situation – when his words don’t match his actions – talking to him won’t work. I suggest you take a different approach – and snap him out of his hot-and-cold behavior by PULLING AWAY from him. Why pull away when he’s being so distant? Because safety and security make men feel complacent. That’s why the more you show your love and affection to guy who hasn’t committed to you yet… actually makes him less attentive to your feelings. Why? Because he knows he’s already “won” you. And he doesn’t need to exert as much effort to keep your love. But when you pull away, it puts him in a PANIC… and panic makes him take ACTION. Panic reveals his TRUE nature! The key, then, is to instill just the right amount of panic in him… just to snap him out of his dreamy, hot-and-cold state of mind. It’s going to make him decide: Should he stay and chase after you? Or should he just let you go?

Either way, you win – you save yourself from months (or even years) of waiting and worrying. That said, there’s still another problem: What if you’re too attached to him? That’s why I suggest an alternative approach: One that actually makes him WANT to stay. Yes, you still inflict that healthy dose of panic in him. But instead of just snapping him into action, it also puts him into what we call “chase mode.” Think about it: Would you rather snap him out of his hot-and-cold habits because (1) you’re just pulling away, or (2) because other men are also vying for your attention?

Without a doubt, the SECOND choice is a lot more fun! Competition is a special kind of “panic” for a guy. It makes him man up and get his act together. It brings out the BEST in him. And even if he DOESN’T man up… if he slinks away with his tail between his legs… you still got the attention of other GREAT guys chasing you!¬† You win either way! Would you like to enjoy that kind of male attention from wonderful guys all the time? Would you like to start RIGHT NOW? Then I invite you to read my complete guide on making him – and OTHER guys – chase you.

Try the proven techniques out for a month – and see how it has helped THOUSANDS of my readers hook up with wonderful men who truly love them! Click below to get started: Put him in “chase” mode

Make him chase you. Make him love you. Make him COMMIT to you. And if he won’t, a better man will, soon enough! So if you want him (and many other guys) to compete for your attention,¬†click here¬†– and may the best man win. To the happiness you deserve,

P.S.:¬†Oh, and if you want a long-term relationship, here’s how to¬†make him want it, too.

P.P.S.:¬†By the way, have you connected with us on Facebook yet? Get great dating advice on your News Feed everyday! Just “Like” our page below: https://www.facebook.com/AlexandraFoxLoveCoach

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