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Flirting With Words Is Music To His Ears

Dear Ladies,

Often, some smart women ask me: “Alexandra, what’s the
most important dating skill to have?”

I usually answer: “The basics are the most important –
confidence, conversation skills, fashion sense, body
language. They get the ball rolling.”

Then, they ask me again: “Sure, but what’s the MOST
IMPORTANT one?”

If you had to choose just one skill to grow, then my
answer would be: Your conversation skills.

Why? Because all the other important skills – confidence,
body language, fashion sense, understanding male
psychology, etc. – can be developed faster and more easily
if you’re a good conversationalist.

Are you fantastically skilled with talking to men?
Or do you still make embarrassing remarks, boring spiels,
and awkward silences?

If you’re not a superstar conversationalist, then don’t
worry. Today, I’ll be sharing with you three conversation
skills that have worked EXTREMELY well for myself and my
readers for years!

Let’s jump right into it with the first skill:

Skill #1 – Making The Conversation Flow

Let’s say you’re at a cafe with a new guy, and you’re
talking about the latest Superman movie. When you run out
of things to say about the movie, what do you do?

Do you abruptly change the topic and talk about your
drink? Do you suffer through an awkward silence? Do you
excuse yourself to run to the bathroom and try to get your
wits together?

Here’s a better idea – make the conversation flow.

Let’s say you run out of things to say about the movie.
Let the conversation flow into a related topic. For
instance, you can say:

“So what’s your favorite movie all-time?”

The thing about guys is that the more they get into a
conversation with you, the more they like you. So if you
could work on just one skill, work on this one first.

It can single-handedly make ANY conversation with ANY guy
more interesting, fun, and flirty!

Here’s the second skill:

Skill #2 – Practice With Your Guy Friends.

Ever noticed that talking with your guy friends is so much
easier than talking to a guy you secretly like?

That’s because you’re under pressure to make a good
impression. You want the guy to like you, too. And that
can tie your brain up in knots, making you say and do
things you later regret!

So to get rid of these jitters, I advise you practice
carrying conversations with your guy friends. (Preferably
the straight ones!)

Try it out. See which topics make them “tick.” Every guy
is different, but here are some topics most guys like
talking about:

(1) Work and business

(2) Current events

(3) Plans for the future

In contrast, avoid these topics with men – they may cause
fire…

(1) Politics

(2) Religion

(3) “Girly” topics like makeup and TV dramas

Here’s a protip: If you want to take your “practicing” to
the next level, try saying “hi” to baristas, to security
guards, to the guy next in line, etc. It builds confidence
like nothing else.

And finally:

Skill #3 – Have An “Awkward Silence Cure.”

No matter how good you are as a conversationalist, there
will always be times when both you and your date run out
of things to say. Cue awkward silence…

This is when it’s great to have an “awkward silence cure.”
Here’s my advice – always keep a few good, funny, or
interesting stories in reserve. That way, when you sense
an awkward silence coming, you can just say, “Oh, by the
way, I just remembered a funny story…”

The great thing about this skill is that the more fun and
fantastic your life is, you’ll have no shortage of
hilarious, exciting stories to tell.

So focus on having a fun life, and awkward silences will
never be a problem for you!

Best Of All? It’s Not Just For Dating

Simple, right? These three tips are enough to turn you
from an average conversationalist to a good one. And with
practice, you can turn from a good conversationalist to a
GREAT one – and guys will always have a good time with
you.

And that’s not even the best part. Being a great
conversationalist isn’t just good for dating.
I’ve met women who actually use these “confident
conversationalist” skills to spice up their MARRIAGES. No
joke!

They just use the skills I teach them to keep their
marriages interesting, always bringing something new to
the table… and their husbands absolutely LOVE it.

Want to learn more about turning your simple words into
the building blocks of a happy, loving relationship? Learn
all the time-tested ways to win a man’s heart by reading
my eBook below:

How To Flirt With Men

And in case you’re wondering, no – my eBook above isn’t
just about conversation. It’s the complete package, with
my top-secret lessons in fashion sense, body language,
male psychology… and more.

Start reading today – I guarantee the lessons will make
your dates, relationship, and marriage stronger, happier,
and more rewarding than ever before. Click here for your
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How To Flirt With Men comes with three free eBooks,
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sensual date and partner:

Bonus eBook #1:
How To Boost Your Dating Confidence In A Month

Bonus eBook #2:
Flirty Ways To Keep A Conversation Going

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How To Get A Guy’s Number In 5 Minutes Or Less

To the happiness you deserve,
Alexandra Fox

If You Can’t Move On From The Breakup, Read This

Dear Ladies,

Let me tell you the story of three
painful breakups…

Our first story is about “Sarah,” who
after 2 years of dating a guy, realized
he was CHEATING on her.

She promptly broke up with the jerk, but
she found herself wanting to get back
with him… even after what he’d done.

Sarah was “stuck” – and even after she
completely broke up with her ex, she
kept falling for players, cheaters, and
non-committing jerks.

Has that ever happened to you?

Our second story is a little different.
It’s about “Melinda,” who once actually
CHEATED on her boyfriend!

At first, Melinda defended herself. She
said, “Why would I stay with a guy who’s
not MAN ENOUGH for me?”

Unfortunately, her reputation had gotten
so bad that no man wanted to date her…
except for one-night stands. What’s
worse, even her friends began to
distance themselves from her.

And finally, our third story is about
“June” – a smart, attractive,
kindhearted girl who was seeing a
bright, hardworking guy.

June had a good relationship for the
first few months. Then, for no apparent
reason, her bond with the guy started
turning sour.

They disagreed and argued with each
other more and more often as the months
went by… until one sad day, they
decided to call it quits.

Has any of your past relationships ended
in a sad way like that… but you had no
idea why?

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WHY BREAKUPS HAPPEN
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Sarah, Melinda, and June illustrate
three of the most common reasons why
breakups happen today…

For women like Sarah, breakups happen
because a lot of guys out there simply
are NOT ready, NOT willing, or NOT able
to take care of a woman properly.

We’re talking about players,
chauvinists, bums, crooks, psychos… or
men who are simply emotionally
unavailable.

For women like Melinda, breakups happen
because of unrealistic expectations…
and misguided ideals.

Some women think their man should be
perfect. And if he’s not, she has every
right in the world to leave him and find
another guy.

Think about it… would you really want
a guy to treat you the same way?

And finally, “June” represents most
women: We don’t have the slightest idea
WHY the breakup happened!

And as a result, we spend weeks, months,
even YEARS wondering what went wrong.

Now, think of your last relationship.
Which of the three women represents your
situation the most?

No matter what caused your breakup, I’m
pretty sure WHAT YOU NEED right now is
the same as what Sarah, Melinda, and
June need:

How do you get over the breakup?

How do you move on with your life?

How can you be happy and contented
again?

As always, it’s Alexandra Fox to the
rescue! Here are 3 time-tested ways to
TRULY get over a breakup and move on
with your life…

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#1 – HANG OUT WITH BETTER CROWDS!
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“Sarah,” the woman who got cheated on,
used to be a party girl. She liked the
thrill of dating different men.

But after she got “played” by her
ex-boyfriend, she realized that EVERY
SINGLE ONE of the men she dated were
players… or had “player habits.” (Do
the men in YOUR dating circle have
“player habits?”)

Determined, Sarah stopped hanging out
with toxic crowds, and started finding
better groups of people to spend her
valuable time with.

She volunteered. She started a tiny
home-based business. She started going
to the gym. And so on.

Today, she’s still single, but she
admits to me that the men she’s dating
right now DON’T have player habits – and
the prospect of a happy relationship in
the near future is pretty good!

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#2 – CHANGE YOUR MINDSET!
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Want to know what happened to “Melinda,”
the woman who cheated on her guy?

After men stopped dating her, and her
friends turned their back to her, and
her family stopped supporting her
decisions, a lonely and desperate
Melinda turned to the one group that
would love and accept even “bad people”
like her: Church.

Melinda tells me:

“At church, I learned to be less about
me, and more about ME AND OTHERS. Why be
happy at others’ expense when we can ALL
be happy together, right?”

Absolutely right, girl!

Today, Melinda is happier, preppier, and
much wiser…. all because she stopped
depending on others for her happiness,
and started WORKING for others’
happiness… and her own!

And finally:

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#3 – KEEP GETTING BETTER AT LOVE!
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A few months after her breakup, “June”
subscribed to my Newsletters, and later
bought a copy of my eBook, The Breakup
Cure.

That’s when she realized her breakup
didn’t happen because of one BIG
mistake… but a handful of tiny
mistakes, done repeatedly over a long
period of time!

So today, June is fixing her bad habits,
one mistake at a time. She’s happy again
– she forgot about the past, and is 100%
focused on “making the rest of her life
the BEST of her life!”

So, do you want to get over your painful
past?

Then keep this in mind: You can’t keep
dating the same way over and over, and
expect things to be different!

You got to hang out with better crowds,
change your mindset, and keep getting
better in love.

And you’re doing all three by being a
part of the Unforgettable Woman
community!

The fastest, easiest way to “revamp”
your lonely love life and start a newer,
better, happier one… is by having a
dating coach at your side.

Unfortunately, that can be expensive.
Most dating coaches charge around $70 an
hour AT LEAST… and sessions can last
for weeks or months. Ouch!

I’m pretty sure, if you’re like most
people, you’d be willing to spend $70 to
fix your love life FOR GOOD. Not $70 an
hour!

Well, here’s some good news – I wrote
The Breakup Cure as a collection of my
years and years of dating advice to
women who just went through painful
breakups.

That’s 20 whole chapters of my
professional advice. It’s like having
your own personal dating coach at your
side, with my advice available to you
24/7!

What’s more, The Breakup Cure also comes
with three FREE bonus eBooks to complete
the breakup recovery program…

Bonus eBook #1 – The Rebound

Bonus eBook #2 – The Reconciliation

Bonus eBook #3 – The Makeover

Want to get started on the road to
recovery? Then click on the link below:

Learn to be happy again!

If you haven’t gone through the
breakup yet – but would like to KEEP a
breakup from happening – then I
recommend this eBook collection instead.
All my eBook collections come with a
30-day money-back guarantee, so go ahead
and give it a shot!

To the happiness you deserve,

~Alexandra Fox

Did He Leave You Hanging? Here’s Why

Dear Ladies,

Has this ever happened to you before?

You met a great man at a party or social
gathering. You have a great time
together, he asks for your number, and
he promises to call you up soon.

But as the days pass, you wonder why he
isn’t calling yet. You find him on
Facebook, but he never responded to your
Friend Request.

What happened? Did he “play” you during
that first meeting? Did you just become
a victim?

Or how about THIS scenario…

You’re dating a great new guy, and he
DOES call you up. In fact, he calls you
up A LOT. (Ever chatted with a man all
the way to breakfast? How fun was THAT?
😉

But suddenly, just when things were
getting “juicy” between you, he suddenly
stops calling. He no longer appears
online, and all your calls and texts go
unanswered.

What happened? Was he just playing with
you? Was it something you said?

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WHY A MAN ASKS FOR YOUR NUMBER,
BUT NEVER CALLS YOU UP
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In today’s Newsletter, we’ll talk about
that all-important pillar of strong
relationships: Communication.

I’ve said it before, and I won’t stop
saying it – if you want a happy, strong,
loving relationship with your man, you
have to work on your communication
skills!

And today’s communication gadget of
choice – mobile phones – can be a
powerful tool in making a man love you
and care for you more. I’ll explain more
later in this Newsletter.

For now, let’s talk about why men
suddenly stop calling – or don’t call at
all.

Why does a man ask for your number, but
never call you up?

This can happen a lot in the casual
dating stage. But here’s the thing: It
SHOULDN’T bother you!

When you’re still “shopping around” in
the dating game, you’ll undoubtedly meet
a lot of guys. And naturally, many of
them won’t be a good match for you…

For instance, some guys may be players.
Others may be too busy for a
relationship. And still others may
simply not be interested in you.

But that’s okay. Like I said, don’t let
it bother you! There’s no point in
pursuing a guy who isn’t interested in
you.

Besides, do you really want a
relationship with a man who can’t keep a
simple promise… like giving you a
call?

Of course not!

But what about the second scenario?

What if you used to spend a LOT of time
calling, texting, e-mailing, and
chatting with each other… then he
suddenly stopped staying in touch with
you?

There are many reasons why a man would
suddenly stop calling you up. And some
of these reasons, unfortunately, involve
certain mistakes that WE make.

(Want to learn how to make him start
calling you again – and KEEP calling you
until you settle down together? Click
here for a free peek!)

If he suddenly stopped calling you up,
kindly ask yourself the following
questions:

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Question #1 – “Am I being a downer?”
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When you chat with him on the phone (or
over the Internet), do you usually talk
about your problems? Or do you use your
sacred communication time to rant and
vent your frustrations in life?

Here’s the thing: You and your
girlfriends may enjoy sharing their
problems and frustrations with each
other… but men certainly don’t.

(That’s why it’s called “GIRL talk!”)

So were you being a “downer” to him?

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Question #2 – “Am I self-centered?”
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Think of the last phone conversation you
had with him. What did you talk about?
How much of your conversation focused on
you, and how much of it focused on HIM?

You probably know this already, but it
bears repeating: When you TALK much more
than you LISTEN, it’s hard for anyone to
like you.

Were you being self-centered?

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Question #3 – “Did I call him too
often?”
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Did you initiate most of your phone
conversations with him? Did you call him
up too often?

Was there ever a time when you called
him up just to ask: “Why haven’t you
called me yet?”

If you read one of our Newsletters last
week, then you’ve probably learned that
it’s HIS job to stay in touch with us.

And when you do most of the calling,
he’ll feel like it’s YOU who’s chasing
him.

He’ll feel like HE’S the woman in the
relationship.

And that alone can make him feel BAD
whenever he’s with you… which, in
turn, will make him call you even LESS.

Let me say that again: Don’t reverse
your roles, or you’ll risk losing him
forever!

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HOW TO MAKE HIM CALL YOU MORE
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I bet you didn’t know there was a
SCIENCE to your phone conversations with
men!

And it’s true – there’s a certain
“psychology” to communicating with a man
over the phone or the Internet. As
you’ve already seen, there are many ways
to “turn him off” – without you knowing
it!

Of course, there’s some good news to the
whole matter. If it’s possible to turn
him OFF with your phone calls, it’s also
possible to TURN HIM ON.

And no, I’m not talking about phone
sex… which, by the way, is another BIG
mistake!

So how DO you turn a man on with a phone
call?

Let me teach you the entire psychology
of communication in my “Get Him To Call
You More” e-book collection. In 14
Chapters, I give you some of the most
powerful ways to actually get a man
HOOKED on calling you up.

What’s more, I also included a special
BONUS e-book, entitled “How To Win The
Calling Game,” to the collection!

What do you think? Are you TIRED of
always losing the calling game?

I suggest you get a copy of “Get Him To
Call You More” today, and make your
mobile phone give you a strong,
wonderful, loving man to date, love, and
cherish.

Because if you don’t, then you won’t get
anything from your phone… except phone
bills! 😉

Click on the link below for a free peek:

Make HIM call you more!

To the happiness you deserve,

~Alexandra Fox