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Flirting With Words Is Music To His Ears

Dear Ladies,

Often, some smart women ask me: “Alexandra, what’s the
most important dating skill to have?”

I usually answer: “The basics are the most important –
confidence, conversation skills, fashion sense, body
language. They get the ball rolling.”

Then, they ask me again: “Sure, but what’s the MOST
IMPORTANT one?”

If you had to choose just one skill to grow, then my
answer would be: Your conversation skills.

Why? Because all the other important skills – confidence,
body language, fashion sense, understanding male
psychology, etc. – can be developed faster and more easily
if you’re a good conversationalist.

Are you fantastically skilled with talking to men?
Or do you still make embarrassing remarks, boring spiels,
and awkward silences?

If you’re not a superstar conversationalist, then don’t
worry. Today, I’ll be sharing with you three conversation
skills that have worked EXTREMELY well for myself and my
readers for years!

Let’s jump right into it with the first skill:

Skill #1 – Making The Conversation Flow

Let’s say you’re at a cafe with a new guy, and you’re
talking about the latest Superman movie. When you run out
of things to say about the movie, what do you do?

Do you abruptly change the topic and talk about your
drink? Do you suffer through an awkward silence? Do you
excuse yourself to run to the bathroom and try to get your
wits together?

Here’s a better idea – make the conversation flow.

Let’s say you run out of things to say about the movie.
Let the conversation flow into a related topic. For
instance, you can say:

“So what’s your favorite movie all-time?”

The thing about guys is that the more they get into a
conversation with you, the more they like you. So if you
could work on just one skill, work on this one first.

It can single-handedly make ANY conversation with ANY guy
more interesting, fun, and flirty!

Here’s the second skill:

Skill #2 – Practice With Your Guy Friends.

Ever noticed that talking with your guy friends is so much
easier than talking to a guy you secretly like?

That’s because you’re under pressure to make a good
impression. You want the guy to like you, too. And that
can tie your brain up in knots, making you say and do
things you later regret!

So to get rid of these jitters, I advise you practice
carrying conversations with your guy friends. (Preferably
the straight ones!)

Try it out. See which topics make them “tick.” Every guy
is different, but here are some topics most guys like
talking about:

(1) Work and business

(2) Current events

(3) Plans for the future

In contrast, avoid these topics with men – they may cause
fire…

(1) Politics

(2) Religion

(3) “Girly” topics like makeup and TV dramas

Here’s a protip: If you want to take your “practicing” to
the next level, try saying “hi” to baristas, to security
guards, to the guy next in line, etc. It builds confidence
like nothing else.

And finally:

Skill #3 – Have An “Awkward Silence Cure.”

No matter how good you are as a conversationalist, there
will always be times when both you and your date run out
of things to say. Cue awkward silence…

This is when it’s great to have an “awkward silence cure.”
Here’s my advice – always keep a few good, funny, or
interesting stories in reserve. That way, when you sense
an awkward silence coming, you can just say, “Oh, by the
way, I just remembered a funny story…”

The great thing about this skill is that the more fun and
fantastic your life is, you’ll have no shortage of
hilarious, exciting stories to tell.

So focus on having a fun life, and awkward silences will
never be a problem for you!

Best Of All? It’s Not Just For Dating

Simple, right? These three tips are enough to turn you
from an average conversationalist to a good one. And with
practice, you can turn from a good conversationalist to a
GREAT one – and guys will always have a good time with
you.

And that’s not even the best part. Being a great
conversationalist isn’t just good for dating.
I’ve met women who actually use these “confident
conversationalist” skills to spice up their MARRIAGES. No
joke!

They just use the skills I teach them to keep their
marriages interesting, always bringing something new to
the table… and their husbands absolutely LOVE it.

Want to learn more about turning your simple words into
the building blocks of a happy, loving relationship? Learn
all the time-tested ways to win a man’s heart by reading
my eBook below:

How To Flirt With Men

And in case you’re wondering, no – my eBook above isn’t
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male psychology… and more.

Start reading today – I guarantee the lessons will make
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How To Flirt With Men comes with three free eBooks,
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To the happiness you deserve,
Alexandra Fox

Why Men Suddenly Disappear

Dear Ladies,

Has this ever happened to you?

You had a blossoming relationship with
an attentive, thoughtful, affectionate
guy… but just as things were getting
good between you, he suddenly
disappeared!

Or let’s say you confessed your feelings
for each other over a romantic dinner…
but afterwards, he started avoiding you!

Have YOU ever dated a guy who suddenly
disappeared when things were getting
good? It’s no fun!

You might have felt betrayed, fooled,
and maybe a little cheated. And for days
and weeks, you must have had just one
question on your mind:

“Why did he run away?”

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WHY MEN SUDDENLY DISAPPEAR
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There are two answers to that question:

#1 – Some guys out there are NOT ready
for a relationship, no matter what they
tell you… and it’s only a matter of
time before they run away.

Good riddance, I say!

But the second reason is more important:

#2 – Some guys ARE ready for a
relationship… but they might feel the
relationship is moving TOO FAST for
them. So they withdraw and spend some
alone time to cope with the pressure.

This is a natural reaction for healthy,
commitment-ready men. Whenever they’re
faced with something they don’t fully
understand, they get quiet, withdraw,
and spend some serious thinking time
alone.

Unfortunately, when a guy withdraws,
many women make the mistake of CHASING
him, confronting him, and asking why
he’s cold and distant… and WON’T LEAVE
HIM ALONE until they get a good answer
from him.

The problem: He doesn’t HAVE a good
answer! And the confrontation makes him
want to stay away even more.

They think, “Okay, I was wondering if
courting her was the right thing to
do… I guess it’s not.”

Oops!

Now, this might have happened to you
before.

If you’re not careful, it might happen
to you again!

Here are two of the most common ways
women encounter “disappearing men,” and
how to deal with them:

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#1 – WHEN HE SUDDENLY GOES QUIET FOR A WEEK
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When an attentive, thoughtful,
affectionate man suddenly goes quiet for
a week, it’s usually a sign that the
relationship made a jump forward that he
wasn’t ready for.

A man, by nature, prefers to move the
relationship forward himself. That’s why
when a woman suddenly moves the
relationship forward – such as by
confessing her feelings or pressuring
him to commit – he’s caught off-guard,
and needs time to process the big
change!

Put simply, he has to feel that moving
the relationship forward was HIS idea…
and it takes a smart, skilled, loving
woman to make a man feel that way!

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#2 – WHEN HE GOES MISSING AFTER A
ROMANTIC EVENT
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When a man disappears after a romantic
event – like a romantic dinner, or when
you have sex for the first time, or when
you confess your feelings to him – it’s
usually a sign he feels things are
moving too fast.

Why is that a big deal? Because while we
women fall in love HARD AND FAST, men
fall in love in STAGES.

And sometimes, when a man feels a woman
is RUSHING a relationship, they feel
like running away – as if they’re
jumping off a runaway train!

If this has ever happened to you, I
recommend you read Chapter 14 of this
eBook collection. Learn how to bounce
back, get up, and get over a wasted
opportunity… and be ready for the next
one!

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HOW TO MAKE A GUY STAY
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You may have lost a few good men in your
past, and that’s fine. In fact, it
doesn’t really matter.

What REALLY matters is this: Will you
KEEP losing good men in the future?

Here’s the scary fact: If you keep
making mistakes in dating… if you
don’t learn how men think… and if you
don’t adjust to a man’s pace in love…
then you WILL keep losing good men!

Now, some of you might object: “But
Alex, it’s not MY fault! I’m just being
me! It’s HIM who should adjust, not me!”

Look at it this way: If you’re “just
being you,” and men keep running away
from you, then there’s obviously a
problem. Right?

After all, there are lots of women out
there – many of them my own readers –
who are also “just being themselves,”
but are STILL attracting great guys
everywhere they go!

What’s the difference? They simply know
things the rest of us don’t.

They know how men think. They know what
men want. They know how to adjust to a
man’s quirks AND keep the relationship
moving forward at the same time.

All by just being themselves!

Want to learn how to “be yourself” AND
nurture a blossoming relationship at the
same time?

Then I recommend you read my eBook
collection, 77 Ways To Lose A Guy. It
has true stories, life lessons, dating
tips, and everything you need to know
about men and what they REALLY want!

Here are some of the great things you’ll
learn in this eBook collection:

(1) How to let go of a painful past
completely, so you can move forward
again

(2) How to get rid of your fear of
rejection

(3) How to spot emotionally-unavailable
men from the very first date

(4) Is he NOT ready for marriage?
Chapter 8 has everything you need to
know and do

(5) Are you dating a married man? Here’s
how to make it work without stepping on
anyone’s toes… (Chapter 11)

(6) If you let the “right one” get away,
how should you deal with the pain? It’s
all in Chapter 14.

(7) 5 Ways to Cheat-proof your marriage

And there’s much, much more! Click below
to start learning:

How to make him stay

Until our next Newsletter, remember: It
takes two people to make a relationship
work. So don’t stop learning, and don’t
stop loving!

My 77 Ways To Lose A Guy eBook
collection also comes with two other
FREE eBooks:

Bonus eBook #1
Inner Demons That Ruin Your Chances At Love

Bonus eBook #2
How To Get Out Of A Bad Relationship

As always, my eBooks come with a 30-day
money-back guarantee. Give 77 Ways To
Lose A Guy a one-month trial today!

To the happiness you deserve,

~Alexandra Fox

What Most Couples Do Wrong

Dear Ladies,

Is there any way to undo a breakup? The answer is a solid
“yes!” If you just broke up with your man over a terrible
misunderstanding… or if you feel your breakup will
happen very soon… then read my book quickly:

How to Save Your Relationship

Today’s Newsletter is for the married women in our
community… and those who are in a relationship. Relationship
is tough, and we all need a little help every now and
then. Hopefully the two lessons I’ll be giving you in
today’s Newsletter will help you make better decisions in
the future.

Some time ago, one of our readers wrote to me about her
problem:

I think I’m about to lose my husband. We’ve been
having the most terrible arguments ever. I know the
whole problem is partly my fault, but I’m desperate to
stop him from leaving me for another woman. It’s my
biggest fear and I don’t know what to do. Help!
~Letty

Thanks for writing, Letty! I’m sorry to hear your
relationship is on the rocks. Now, getting your man back
when he’s about to leave you is always a tricky situation.
No two breakups are exactly alike, so there’s no
“one-size-fits-all” solution. But every single solution
begins with one important thing:

Don’t Compromise. Communicate.

I’ve studied thousands of divorces over the past several
years, and you know what I’ve learned?

If couples only knew how to communicate with each other,
they could have saved their relationship… and hundreds
of thousands of dollars… and untold suffering for
themselves and their kids.

Sadly, for 90% of couples in trouble, communication means
“This is what I want, tell me what you want, and let’s
meet in the middle.”

And ladies, that’s not love.

That’s BUSINESS.

No WONDER their relationships don’t work out!

Likewise, you should keep that in mind. If your idea of a
“good” relationship is one where everything is fair,
equal, and 50-50… then guess what? You’re giving
yourself a 50-50 chance of a breakup or divorce in
the future.

Don’t give yourself a 50% chance of true love and
happiness. Don’t use business terms when communicating
with your loved one.

Instead, stop asking yourselves what you want… and start
asking: “What’s best for the relationship?”

This single question makes everything clear. It tells you
both what sacrifices you need to make, individually and
together, to make the relationship happy, fun, and
strong again.
Now, normally, it takes just one person to start this type
of conversation. My advice: Don’t wait for him. Start it
yourself. Approach him, talk to him, and don’t give up
until he gives in.

What if he DOESN’T want to talk to you, and you still want
to fix things?

Then I suggest you use my “last resort” approach – one
that’s sure to make him think twice about leaving you.

It’s all in my book, The 77 Secrets to Save Your
Relationship. This special eBook collection has saved
hundreds of relationships in our community to date, and it
will save yours, too.

Click below to give it a try:

Save Your Relationship NOW!

Now, if you’re not yet married… or you might SOON get
married, but you’re worried about what lies ahead… then
let me speak to you.

I’m pretty sure you know that, in the States at least,
nearly half of all marriages end in divorce… and most
couples who do stay together aren’t exactly happy with
each other.

What did these couples do wrong?

Just one thing: They didn’t plan ahead. Either they rushed
their relationships, and things got hard before they got
ready, or they all thought they could handle whatever life
would throw at them… and later realized life was a lot
meaner and nastier than they ever expected.

So as times get harder, they start looking for someone to
blame… and most times, they can only point their fingers
at each other. It’s really, really crazy… and very,
very sad.

It’s easy to look at these couples and think, “I don’t
want to end up like them!”

Well, here’s the good news: You don’t have to.

And with the tips in my Crucial Stages in Love eBook
collection, you won’t!

Crucial Stages in Love is an eBook collection I wrote for
my readers who want to be completely prepared for their
relationships. It’s all about being two steps ahead of the
challenges that will surely come your way… so that when
they do come, you’ll be ready for them!

This eBook collection covers all four crucial stages in a
relationship: Casual Dating, Exclusive Dating, Serious
Relationship, and Marriage & Beyond. All you need to know
in one easy-to-read, easy-to-apply package!

What’s more, if you get your copy today, you’ll also get a
bonus eBooklet entitled How to Raise Good Kids in a Bad
World. (I told you it had all you need to know!)

Want to stay together with your man, have a happy
marriage, start a strong family, and grow old together?

Then start planning now:

Handle love problems easily

To the happiness you deserve,
Alexandra Fox